I'm just soliciting opinions here-
Whenever I hear a news report describing where the ISS is, where the Shuttle is going, or where an astronaut has been-- I cringe at the phrase "outer space." I've always had the opinion that 'outer' space is well, something beyond earth orbit- certainly beyond LEO- and if pressed would probably define it as beginning say- at that point in a translunar trajectory where lunar gravity becomes greater than earth gravity. If it were a trajectory toward other objects in the solar system, well, that wouldn't apply and I guess I would consider 'outer space' as being anything beyond the circumference of the moon's orbit.
But then, what do you call the LEO, GEO areas? Personally, I'd simply say 'space' or 'near-space,' since "Inner space" has popularly been applied to the underwater environment. (Scott Carpenter biographers are always quick to call him a pioneer of "outer and inner space.")
We all occupy 'space'- and so does our 'stuff,'
but I've always had the opinion that outer space means something more than simply the edge of the atmosphere. In the grand scheme of things, if it were up to me----
"outer space" would mean anything beyond the sphere of human influence. Should we ever have permanent bases on bases on the moon- outer space would be anything beyond the moon..... same for Mars if that ever happens.
Honestly, I've only had one beer.